Quote Originally Posted by eachpassingphase View Post
What I really want is to get into his phone and make copies of texts and his Slack messages between this woman and him, but I’m not sure how to get them without him knowing and starting a huge meltdown. Maybe it won’t make a difference, but I’d rather have everything than not just in case.
Don’t worry about that. Let your lawyer worry about if that’s needed.

See this: https://www.womenslaw.org/laws/mo/di...vorce-missouri

Has he admitted that he’s been having an affair?

Either way, the stuff he said to you certainly falls into category number 2.

You’re documenting, this is good.