You’re automatically entitled to up to 50% of his Social Security when you reach 65, if you don’t remarry, if you were married at least 10 years.
But the bigger concern now is the children. Child support, getting a court order entered for wage deductions, healthcare costs, education costs, etc.
Revenge in divorce is never useful when children are involved.
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eachpassingphase , are you still a mortuary science student? If your husband is currently making a lot more than you because you are a student trying to better yourself in a new career, your lawyer can attempt to get the court to require your husband to pay you maintainance (fka alimony) for a time determined necessary while you complete your education.