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the duder
So, I was talking with my GF last night and we brought up the idea of me going down to visit her in Orlando. I really want to get the fuck out of Buffalo for a while, and was thinking that next week would be the perfect time for me to go and visit, since I'll be on spring break and we will only have like 2 (maybe 4-6 people, depending on how the men's conference swim meet goes) athletes that will need coaching. We discussed me flying down for a long weekend this coming weekend, but she's doing a diabetes walk on Saturday (her bro has type 1), which I'd like to go to do with her. Also, she is planning on moving on Sunday. I repeatedly told her that I could help, and would like to help, but she said "no, it's fine. I don't want you to have to do that." Anyway, we discussed the following weekend and she said she's going to be way too busy that weekend because she has a huge exam to study for, which I totally understand.
Basically, I'm in a mental deadlock. Part of me is like "she's busy - don't fucking worry about it; there's plenty of other weekends" and the other part of me is saying "the fuck is she trying to hide from me?!" Part of the rationale for the latter is that she also told me that her good friend from home is coming to visit this weekend and, from what I understand, they're planning a "drunk Disney" day. The other part of the crazy rationale is that she repeatedly said "well, I can always come up there and visit".
Ugh. Distance sucks.