Originally Posted by
frankie teardrop
i'm not sure if you're looking for positive reinforcement for this, but it's complicated and i'm not sure you're in the right. it seems like you acknowledge that it was a bad call to hook up with this friend of yours, despite the lack of boundaries and communications. with that in mind, it's hard to be upset with your boyfriend about it, people take time to get over things that hurt them, trust needs to be re-established, etc... and since it was only april/may, it's not right to expect him to just get over something like that at a pace that's to your liking, and it sounds like you're not being supportive considering it was you that made the mistake. miscommunication is a two way street like that. maybe it's his fault for not setting firm boundaries, but you still knowingly did something hurtful, and that's the bigger deal here.