Fetish, is that what it is? Sheesh. These "dating" sites are kinda gross, aren't they? If you're looking for a real relationship, anyway; it's filled with poon-hounds.
I met a lot less poon-hounds at the bar. At least, at a bar, you can get the "are you a poon-hound?" issue out of the way a lot faster.
Maybe you should pretend you're Jewish (unless you really are) and do J-Date.