I didn't think you were, don't worry! It did twig something with me when I first read it but almost immediately I remembered not everybody automatically knows the correct protocol about pronouns. Related to that (and to Dra508's comment), it's only really when I notice misgendering in news articles and whatnot that it bothers me because I always feel like journalists should know better. I know journalists are only human and we all make mistakes... I mean, back when I was still going to a trans group I slipped up and referred to a pre-op transwoman in an Asian movie as 'he' and even though I corrected myself right away, I felt sick—and this was after I'd spent a lot of time reading about trans folk. It's just that there's this naive part of me that always hopes the media will be objective, or at least if they choose to cover stories like this, that they'll be sensitive. A rough 6 times out of 10 I'm disappointed, so those 4 times I'm always extra pleased when people go out of their way to use the correct terminology.
I find far too often that journalists adopt this sensationalist tone about transgender people (transwomen, especially) where they're treated like a carnival attraction or something. There was an article a little while back about a little girl who was trans and they kept referring to her as a 'he' whenever they were highlighting the fact that she wasn't born female. It skeeved me out because other than that, the article was presented in a very open-minded way and it seemed like such a glaring mistake/insult when taken in context. There's a difference between a slip of the tongue when it comes to pronouns (or just not understanding how pronouns work in general) and making a point of highlighting the he/she change.
In short: apologies, Richard, if it seemed like I was targeting you there—I honestly didn't intend it that way!
And on a related note (but not sparked by this conversation in any way), I made the decision today that I'm going to go by male pronouns again. I'm sick of feeling like I'm not entitled to ask people to use the correct gender with me because I'm not making any immediate plans to medically transition. For a while I thought it was easier to go the gender neutral route because it was embarrassing to correct people when I was quite clearly physically a female in most people's eyes. Right now getting rid of that niggling feeling every time someone calls me 'her' is more important to me than avoiding uncomfortable moments. That's not to say that I'm ready to come out to everybody yet (my manager used the phrase 'fucking dyke' to refer to somebody the other day so I'd rather not hear what she has to say about trans people) but I'm going to start taking small steps again.
So yes: male pronouns, just a heads-up to everyone.