Originally Posted by
eversonpoe
:: eye roll :: dude, if you feel the need to say no homo, even jokingly, after you compliment someone's appearance, you have issues. i normally really like you, but that really, really pisses me off. it's another symptom of our misogynistic, patriarchal, and completely ridiculously insecure, "heteronormative" culture.
why can't you just tell me you prefer no beard and leave it at that? i wouldn't think you were hitting on me, or that you were even remotely interested. unless you said "your face looks way more fuckable without a beard" or something like that...then i'd be pretty sure you were coming on to me (pun intended).
ARGH sorry i just really can't stand that kind of bullshit, especially coming from people i like. >.<