Double fun-day Monday! Two-times Tuesday?
Double fun-day Monday! Two-times Tuesday?
If you have sex on a Wednesday, I like to call that double hump day.
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Last edited by playwithfire; 05-04-2020 at 07:48 AM.
Honestly it's just another way to police women's sexuality. They say that the sample size argument does not hold up. In social science, we are supposed to have at least 30 subjects for each condition. So in a hard science, I imagine that figure should be similar or way more. However, it is something that weirds people out, so they took this "study" and ran with it. The only thing that it really stated is that it has some of the same chemical compounds as urine. But like - duh.
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Last edited by playwithfire; 05-04-2020 at 07:49 AM.
Well, beer is 95% water, but that small percentage is enough to give it very different properties. Squirting doesn't make bedsheets stink like it's been peed on in my experience.
As for whether squirting is positioned as a "goal", I've more commonly heard the opposite - a lot of people really don't like it, particularly since the urine research. But either way, social pressure for your body to work a particular way doesn't sound healthy.
Oh, yes. I do not believe that it should be a "goal" or there shouldn't be pressure put upon people to try to "achieve" it. Like many things, I think this is linked with porn. Men are led to believe that squirting is like, the pinnacle of orgasms. But like, it's just something that happens or it doesn't. I don't like these aggressive dudes who are like EVERY WOMAN CAN DO IT WITH THE RIGHT GUY. No. Go away.
I don't think I'd even count it as an orgasm. And if it is, it's like... my least favorite form of orgasm.
My like, favorite person, is in town right now, and we hung out last night and we didn't really hook up or anything because we were both tired and it was late, but I ACTUALLY FELT SEXUAL ATTRACTION TOWARDS ANOTHER HUMAN FOR THE FIRST TIME IN MONTHS ��It's been seriously getting to me how out-the-window my libido is, and how hard feeling essentially asexual has been for me, because I am not asexual, so ffffffffff, yay, feel a little less like I'm malfunctioning, yay.
when your libido is so low that you're feeling asexual toward other beings, do you still have any libido/drive in terms of your own personal sexuality? i.e. is masturbation also just completely off the table for you? i can't even imagine how frustrating that would be for someone who isn't asexual (but i also say that not knowing anyone personally who is asexual, and i don't know if masturbation is a thing that most asexual individuals do or don't participate in)
Yeah, totally still do/did. Which is super common since being asexual only means you don't experience sexual attraction to others.
And like, if I'm doing sexual things with another person I can enjoy it from a physical pleasure standpoint. But the like... desire for that other person just isn't there. But like, I'm not asexual. So like, experiencing sexual attraction to other people like... flew out the damn window sometime in the winter and hasn't been doing a great job of being around.
Which is problematic because there are various people in NYC I need to figure out if I'm pursuing shit with or not. It's also made me feel really disconnected with myself/I think it's been a part of hormonal imbalance and depression.
But this person, who I've been into for years, and have hooked up on and off with for a couple of years, shows up and my brain is like "yeah you totally want them" and oh thank god
I got some last night.
gross.
Reminds me of:
After far too long I finally had some sex last night.
hi, guys. haven't been here in a minute, but i wanted y'all to know that several times now i've seriously had two orgasms right after the other. i don't know why, i recently turned 40 and started dating again for the first time in ages.
#blessed
our sex is so insanely passionate. it's a euphoric experience every. damn. time. he just turned 53 and, wow, this feels as new as my first kiss.
if we're fb friends, you've seen just how adorable he is. i am so fucking in love.