Originally Posted by
Sarah K
It took me a LONG FUCKING TIME to adjust to.
The very first time it happened was with a serious boyfriend. I was like WHAT JUST HAPPENED?! And he got so mad. Sooooooooo mad. It turned into a huge fight. So for years after that, it always gave me horrid memories. Now, I just always throw out a warning before I fuck someone new.
I think a lot of it was just age. I was like 21 or so. I wasn't even sure what was going on. So no way for him to know. I like it now! Just takes a little planning which can be a damper because spontaneous shit is always way, way more exciting than having to plan out sex like a fucking business meeting.