It for sure could have just been a one off thing that happened.
The lube thing must be a consistent issue with them because I saw a box yesterday that was like SUPER EXTRA LUBRICATED or something.
I'm going to try to put one on a Hitachi tonight. Will report back!
Fuck yeah, science!
I'm now imaging their lube machine as an intermittently drooling mentally challenged mess.
I'll have to try those out. They seem interesting. I was comparing against lambskin because those are best in terms of strength and sensation. Every time a new synthetic comes out I am hopeful of it matching or beating that mark. Bonus points if they are cheaper.
I'm guessing most of the sensation improvement is noticed by the wearer though. My wife says she doesn't notice much difference.
I unfortunately know someone who did that. He's a PoS as far as I'm concerned even if he's found "redemption" through NA and activism (I have no idea for what as I stopped talking to him soon after he told me about it.) He even tried painting HIMSELF as the victim, saying the woman he'd infected was "a piece of work" and "if you'd met her, you probably wouldn't feel sorry for her." VILE.
I dunno if I should ask this question here or in the equality thread or what. I think it'll get ignored in the equality thread, since there is a shitstorm there right now... so I'm going to try it here.
A couple of weeks ago, I was sitting around with two friends. These are two women that I've met in the kink scene - very open minded, and both identify as bisexual.
We were just talking about sexuality, and I mentioned I used to see a guy who was bisexual. They both thought that this was so weird, and both stated that they would never date a bisexual man. I was like... WHAT?! YOU'RE BOTH BI?!?!@?13L?J3 I told them that I thought that was really weird, and asked them why. They both just kinda mumbled around and said that they couldn't be with a guy who was "like that".
What the shit is this? These are two very open minded and liberated women. Is there still a stigma about bisexual men to where they are seen as odd, but women are accepted(I know this has been common beliefs among bros, but two bisexual women?)?
I don't understand how two bisexual people can reject someone... for being bisexual. I cannot wrap my brain around this.
Ugh, it's a THING. My boyfriend doesn't identify as straight, but the backlash from women towards queer men has been something that has actually dissuaded him from thinking of pursuing guys more. Even though I would counter that he shouldn't want to be with someone who would be that shitty towards him.
I think it's homophobic and terrible and ugh.
(For the record, my boyfriend not being straight is a HUGE BONUS to me and something I'm actually very happy and proud of.)
Does this go back to the whole belief that being bisexual isn't real, and that bisexual men are secretly gay?
I dunno about their sexuality. I've never seen either of them with women, but that doesn't mean anything.
There is even more pressure in the kink community for women to be bisexual. So maybe it's just caving to that. But I also feel like then I'm doing the same thing.. OH, YOU AREN'T REALLY BI. You know? I know I should accept how people identify, I just don't understand this, and I'm trying to get a better grasp on it.
It's cultural. Pop media and porn shows WAY more girl on girl stuff compared to guy on guy. Granted, you have to be a slave to cultural bullshit to buy into it... but there are a ton of people in that category.
This is my mother's theory.She thinks society puts pressure on people to do things they might not otherwise do. Mind you she's a pretty accepting person while growing up in a prudish Catholic family. Her other theories include that more than 50% of priests are gay....and that's ok. /driftttttttt
I posted this in the feminism thread but this belongs here too:
(I felt the urge to tell someone this and remembered that this used to be my go-to place for overshare)
I've just had my first internal orgasm for two years!!!
In a testament to compersion, both Daddy and my sex libidos have been pretty shot for around two years (between my biodad being arrested for trying to kill my mum, a bunch of scary shit on the news that clashes with our kinks, and his cancer scare/reconstruction surgery), but since January (post-surgery for him) we've been meeting up regularly to build things up very slowly and do cuddly stuff like go for dinners and cuddle with cats along with lots of talking. It had got to the point where I was bone dry and nothing could go inside my vagina without me developing tears; my brain was desperate to do things but my vagina just wouldn't listen. It was a slow process of rubbing things on my vagina, searching for and writing something that might trigger us, and sitting for up to an hour at a time with one of those vibrating bullet things in (vibrations have never done it for me but I've read that this method of stretching is very useful for people who have suffered vaginismus and/or sexual trauma). Over the past two weeks I've started to feel mild tingling in my genitals that I haven't felt in a very long time, and tonight, with the help of a glass dildo, I had an orgasm. I was so relieved that I cried afterwards!
Ah, I will sleep well tonight.
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Congratulations on your orgasm!
That is great! I recently have had the opposite happen, I had gotten so used to internal orgasm that trying to stimulate just the clitoris was doing nothing. Uuuuntiiiiil I started masturbating more often because for a year there I didn't masturbate at all, then I found pleasure again in non-penetration sex! The downside has been that I'm not on birth control so my female musk has been too intense for my partner to go down on me...super lame I know. I'm making up for it by having more masturbating-while-he-watches-and-caresses sessions and more doggy style where I get to stimulate my clitoris at the same time- something that never had much appeal to me before. It's great because having clitoris orgasms is the only way for me to have multiple orgasms.
Whaaat @ female musk. If everything is healthy otherwise, whaaaat. Does he know how jizz tastes?
My latest rendezvous took place on my birthday 20 days ago. Lets just say it involved a bottle of 1980 Yellow Tail Merlot and anal intercourse.
You've never read Reddit hen.
Then again, I still wonder why I do.
I spend half my screentime on the dinosaur reddit, and I don't remember ever discussing football-target-zone aroma (archosaurian or otherwise).
I mean, from what I've experienced, I generally far prefer how pussy tastes to jizz. But yeah. So like... even if stuff is strong down there, I'm kinda like ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
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He does know how terrible it tastes (his smell even extra like bleach too, it's weird) and I never swallow jizz and sometimes the smell of his balls is too much that even I decide not to really spend time down there. He never asks me to go down on him so it's not like it's an unfair thing. I think I will ask him to go down one day immediately after showering though because I miss it...